The clinical neuropsychologist María Clavel, from the Therapeutic Care Service of the Hospital Mesa del Castillo, highlighted in an interview that currently, due to the Covid-19, they are “experiencing extreme emotions on a frequent basis” that force them to respond with “the best tools at hand.” In this context, Carnation has highlighted that both children and the elderly are giving “a lesson” of adaptation to a new situation.
In relation to greater He stressed that, a priori, “they are the most exposed, most vulnerable and most dangerous sector in the situation”, not only because of the virus, but because they have to face “an extreme level of loneliness”.
Despite “all difficulties they have had, not only have they been able to organize, cope with fear and take out their resources to overcome the situation, but they have also done so and have not complained, “he stressed.
For their part, children they “have adapted very well to the situation”. However, he has warned, it should not be forgotten that they have gone through the same emotional responses that adults have gone through.
Do not forget that “they have been given very hard messages of accepting and assuming, for which many were unprepared for their age and evolutionary / brain development. “This has made some children “they have adapted very well and others to whom fear has made them have a very hard time.”
In this situation, Carnation has opined, “parents are handling it very well. They are the ones who know the children best and know how they have to help or intervene. “
It supposes a test
The neuropsychologist has explained that in a very short time “we have been tested in all possible ways “and it has been responding,” as possible “, going through different adaptive, emotional and psychological phases to adapt to a” new reality “.
But not everyone has been affected to the same extent. Clavel explained that people who had many difficulties in coping with reality, who suffered anxiety and affective responses due to the demands of everyday life, and who even had many symptoms, “This situation has benefited them”, Since they have had “a break in their reality, they have gotten into the tranquility of their homes and this stage has been very good for them.”
And against others, “has hurt them this situation “and has given as an example to patients with pathologies where day-to-day life made it easier for them to change the focus of their anxiety and reduce their impact.
“His work and social relations They were very good for them, they were distracting, they allowed them the opportunity to diversify and balance the symptoms, and now with the confinement and the stoppage of the activity, they have suffered a setback, aggravating the symptoms and hindering their emotional adjustment, requiring greater clinical follow-up ” , has pointed out.
The clinical neuropsychologist at the Mesa del Castillo Hospital has warned that the de-escalation is not “going to be easy” either, since it is about adapting “to a new reality. “
In this line, he has pointed out that children draw coronavirus how “real little monsters with claws and teeth, something physical and real that goes after you and will hurt you “and the older ones have internalized that the home is” a safe place “and now they tell you that” you have to go outside. “This means, he has argued, “a new adjustment to a reality with new routines and new fears that must be accommodated little by little”.
To do this, he advised “adjust the level of requirement to the situation, trying to organize around priorities and understanding that not everything is going to be reached. “Therefore, we must” give ourselves enough time for the emotional response to go down and we can adapt. “
And that will be achieved, he insisted, with “routines, organizing ourselves day by day, setting priorities and facing the situation with great care and patience, and naturally let the anguish go down as we see that we are able to cope and resolve each day. “
Finally, “if we do not manage to face the situation, nothing happens, for that we are professionals who can help give answer“, it is finished.