"Abusers can never be good parents," said Las Palmas magistrate of the Gender Violence Court number 2, Auxiliadora Díaz, who organized the 1st International Gender Congress, held this week in Agüimes with the presence of numerous experts in sexist violence.
The magistrate expressed concern about the consequences of gender violence on the victims' children. "Children exposed to attacks are invisible and need special protection measures," he said. One of the means he proposed to prevent minors from staying in the circle of violence is to avoid the contact of the aggressor with the children. "When a restraining order is issued on the mother, the visitation regime of the children is still maintained," Díaz explained and criticized that "society is very tolerant of such issues."
With the emergence of ultra-right political formations in the parliamentary arch that deny the existence of gender-based violence, alarms were raised among those who struggle daily, delivering justice or raising public awareness about the importance of building an egalitarian country. In this sense, Díaz said that "it is incompatible, in a democratic society, to deny the existence of gender-based violence," for which he called "to inform the population, because interfamily violence cannot be confused with gender-based violence. let alone deny it. " In addition, he explained that there is not only violence in the sphere of the couple but that, according to the Istanbul Convention, there are other faces of gender violence such as sexual harassment or female mutilation, "which are invisible and we must work to make it visible , collect data and take measures to alleviate it. "
The meeting was closed by the State Attorney General, María José Segarra, who opted to improve accessibility to justice for victims of gender-based violence. "The complaints have to be increased because we need to know and give attention to all the women who suffer."
Segarra said that these types of meetings are not given to "make triumphalism", but to make self-criticism because "while there are women murdered, the involvement of the State has to be visible" and pointed out that forums such as the one held in Agüimes help to give presence and raise awareness to the population and to the professionals who deal with the victims of sexist aggressions.
Although Spain has a "pioneer" legislation, for Segarra one must also be pioneers in "getting closer" to the victims and that "justice conveys a sense of confidence so that complaints are increased".
The State Attorney General said that the main concern should be the care and accompaniment of the victims, a task in which all institutions go hand in hand. Thus, he stressed the importance of the social services of the municipalities, which "are fundamental to them when it comes to detecting, attending and giving confidence to those who approach this problem."
The president of the Subcommittee on Gender Violence of the General Council of Advocacy, Filomena Peláez, said they are "struggling" to avoid "the legal inferiority of victims of gender violence", since when a battered woman gets to put a complaint to your aggressor, you do not have a lawyer to advise you previously. "We understand that the attention of the lawyer to the victim must be mandatory, just as no defendant gives a statement without a lawyer," says Peláez, who argues that it cannot be left to the woman's discretion, "which goes through such a difficult time," The option of having a lawyer.
The lawyer says that when the victim decides not to have the help of a lawyer when filing a complaint at a police headquarters, when they arrive at the courthouse "they are in a critical situation and do not want to testify." However, when a lawyer specializing in gender violence is present "vital issues are included in the complaint and then prove that violence has existed and establish whether it has been a timely or habitual aggression."
From the General Counsel of the Advocacy they consider that the recognition of the prescriptive nature of legal aid is vital for the best defense of women. To file the complaint "we must collect evidence and witnesses who may be relatives, neighbors or police, if they have witnessed any altercation," says Peláez, "if we are before filing the complaint we can advise the victim and so decide with more information. "